Image courtesy graysnork We can embrace our monstrosity while cultivating our human nobility. We can allow each to transform the other, so we become cheerful, kind, useful monsters who are also overpo
Image courtesy Inextremiss We can embrace our monstrosity while cultivating our human nobility. We can allow each to transform the other, so we become cheerful, kind, useful monsters who are also over
Image courtesy TeaBeforeWar We can embrace our monstrosity while cultivating our human nobility. We can allow each to transform the other, so we become cheerful, kind, useful monsters who are also ove
Image courtesy Inextremiss We can embrace our monstrosity while cultivating our human nobility. We can allow each to transform the other, so we become cheerful, kind, useful monsters who are also over
“ ‘One day when they were of age, the two remaining brothersdetermined to set out on a Quest, to seek their fortune in the wideworld. For they were brave and handsome and clever—or at leastthe older b
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Everyone you meet is a Buddha. All the world is a sacred paradise. That is the tantric practice of “pure vision.” Like charnel ground , it is a “practice of view,” which means developing the habit of
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What we want from religion is guarantees. The mundane world is chaotic, risky, arbitrary and confusing. Efforts that should work fail. The good suffer and wrong-doers prosper. Life does not make sense
Human beings naturally care passionately about the specifics of our situations. The tantric attitude is that there are no wrong emotions . A whole person has a full 360-degree spectrum of passions, re
Nothing is fundamentally wrong with the world. That is tantra’s main claim about the nature of reality. Maybe it sounds like good news: “Cool, man! Everything is great! No problem! Don’t worry, be hap
Thangtong Gyalpo’s bridge over the Tsangpo A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a w
number eight: emptiness Vajrayana Buddhism begins where Sutrayana ends: at emptiness. Vajrayana concerns the realms beyond emptiness , about which mainstream Buddhism (Sutrayana) has nothing to say. F
Complex ideologies are based on collections of simple stances : fundamental attitudes toward meaningness . Some stances (addressing different of meaningness) work together well; others clash. Most sys
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TL;DR: Much of my time for the past year has been spent navigating the medical maze on behalf of my mother, who has dementia. I observe that American health care organizations can no longer operate sy
In traditional meditative practices, "letting go" (also called non-attachment ) means coming to terms with the fact that both good things and bad things are a constant in our lives. Life is an accumul
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Up the Estonian coast, a five-lane highway bends with the path of the sea, then breaks inland, leaving cars to follow a thin road toward the houses at the water’s edge. There is a gated community here
One of the few detectable lies in David Foster Wallace's books occurs in his essay on the obscure '90s-era American tennis prodigy Michael Joyce, included in Wallace's first nonfiction anthology, A Su
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‘S o what’s the scoop on this conductor guy?” a friend once asked after I took her to an orchestral concert, the first one she had ever seen. “Do they really need him, or is he just there for show?” H
IN THE MONTH OF MAY M y only real awareness of the Kentucky Derby, growing up across the river from Louisville, lay in noticing the new commemorative glass that appeared in the cupboard each May, to b
Your hunting party of repurposed, cobbled together and barely-repaired pre-Collapse electric vehicles sweeps across the alkaline rich dust flats of old farm land. The outriders are kicking up rooster
“I am a composer,” Ned Rorem once said, “who also writes, not a writer who also composes.” His music—hundreds of ravishing art songs and instrumental scores, one of which won the 1976 Pulitzer Prize—h
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With the City Series , TIDAL investigates the local music scenes of U.S. cities. Enlisting the expertise of a locally-based music writer, we explore the past, present and future of music in each town.